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Wednesday, May 25, 2011 by Adinda Medina
You smile to me like I'm the only one that matters
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How would you want peace in this world if you're not even in peace with your mind?
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Tuesday, May 24, 2011 by Adinda Medina
hmm.. susah ya kalo baru putus..
gimana, enakan mutusin apa diputusin?
mungkin awalnya mikir mending mutusin, kalo diputusin ego kita jatuh dan lebih sakit hati
kenyataan nya engga. mutusin pacar itu engga gampang. apalagi kalo udah sayang.
trus kalo masi sayang kenapa diputusin?
alesannya bisa macem - macem..
bisa aja lagi perlu waktu sendiri. bisa aja sayang tapi bosen. bisa aja sayang tapi ngerasa udah ga ada spark lagi.
tapi yang paling sakit hati kalo mutusin pacar karena ngerasa udah ga bisa bahagiain dia lagi. Tapi mungkin walaupun saling sayang ga harus selalu bersama..
"Sometimes things have to fall apart to make way for better things" - Ted Mosby
"Sometimes things have to fall apart to make way for better things" - Ted Mosby
Contoh lainnya, ada orang yang takut jatuh cinta (duh, bahasanya. apa boleh buat), ngerasa udah ada spark tapi ga berani buka hati lebih dalem lagi karena takut sakit hati atau takut nyakitin orang yang dia sayang. Ada juga orang yang blak - blak an tiap kali sayang sama orang. saking sayangnya dia ga ngeliat dirinya sendiri sakit hati.Tapi gw percaya yang namanya jodoh itu ga kemana. Setertutupnya orang sama orang lain, kalo udah nemuin yang tepat pasti akan kebuka juga hati nya. Pelan tapi pasti.
Ada pasangan yang suka gengsian. Lagi berantem terus kangen tapi gengsi mau bilang duluan. Gimana dong tuh? Yang namanya pacaran gengsi sedikit - sedikit boleh demi harga diri, tapi jangan ketinggian juga, mesti nunjukin ke pasangan kalo kita sayang. Kalo masih gengsi belum sayang - sayang banget dong berarti ;)
Kok gw mellow banget ya malem ini. Yah, suasana sekitar lagi memungkinkan untuk nulis yang mellow - mellow. :)
satu lagi,
the key to relationship is communication.
have a great affair :)
Medina
ps: good luck buat test transport :D
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Sunday, May 15, 2011 by Adinda Medina
Sometimes I can't control my dark twin.. :( sometimes I need help but too afraid to tell.. :(
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Saturday, March 12, 2011 by Adinda Medina
Don't look around because you'll be impressed. Don't look down you'll be depressed; just look to Me & you'll be blessed! - God
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Are you feeling lonely? :)
0i think everyone has experienced loneliness. I myself feel lonely right now, though my friends are just around the corner. It's normal for us to feel lonely sometimes.
Sometimes when I talk to friends but not really in mood, just agree on what they say, though I actually son't. Sometimes I laugh even though they're not funny, just for the sake of being nice.
Sometimes when I am about to get period, when my emotion is just fluctuating all the time.
Sometimes when I'm in crowd when nobody listens to me. Even it's friends.
I feel it's better to be alone in my room. Some people do that, and some people search for crowd to comfort their loneliness.
I searched google the term "lonely" just now, and I found this interesting article from www.dailychilli.com. It tells a story about a 6-year old boy who lives alone in China because his parents die due to HIV. He himself is an HIV carrier. His only family is his granny, which refused to take care of him. No school wanted to accept him, no doctors wanted to cure him. He does his own washing, cooking and even studying in his parent's house and the only friends he has is the chicken and the god he takes care of.
What a story.
Another thing I found in google was a book by Emily White called "Lonely". She used to be an environmental protection lawyer - which was a good job, but she quit her job and studied about loneliness. She documented her loneliness into writing and published the book. One of her quote says,
"Right now, loneliness is something few people are willing to admit to. There’s no need for this silence, no need for the shame and self-blame it creates. There’s nothing wrong with loneliness, and we need to start acknowledging this through a wider and more open discussion of the state."
Another thing from google comes from www.experienceproject.com which has a blog written by everydone. I found one story about a boy feeling lonely. He hates himself because he feels like his sister hates him as well as his mom. His confidence depleted as he only heard bad stuff about him. He told himself dumb and fat and he was diagnosed to have a brain damage. He was angry and sad but his mom did not care much. All he did was to isolate himself in his room, cry and cry. At the end of story he thought that suicide was the best alternative.
What a story.
Sometimes when I feel lonely I can't help but thinking negative. Reading something like this somehow makes me realized I'm not the only one. I should consider myself lucky to have my family and my friends. And it shocked me when I hear someone wants to commit suicide. Whatever the reason is, suicide is just foolish, crime and sin.
Another thing I found in google is "lonely planet", but that's not relevant.
Another page showed me youtube video "Lonely by Medina". Shocking news, I uploaded the video here. But hey, it's a catchy song, but I swear it's not me and it's completely coincidence.
so, don't feel too miserable when you're lonely, because surprisingly, you are not alone :)
Cheers,
Medina
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About Me
- Adinda Medina
- Too much imagination and thought in my head that I can't spill them out all in words.
